well, it's over 2 hours from you, but i highly recommend trying out autocross with the National Road Autosports guys. they run all the time at an airport and it is a blast! AC cobras, daytona race cars, formula fords, Cavaliers, stangs, z28s, and everything in between! it's only about 30 bucks and very friendly to new folks. very welcoming and willing to show you how it's done.
http://www.nationalroadrally.com/index.html and just surf around. there are some local ones but i can't vouch for them. one's at ripken stadium with autocrossersinc.org.
my suspension is much tighter than stock, but it's not uncomfortable. much more precise, very little body roll. i'm very happy with what i have now. adjustable panhard is next on the suspension list and then there's not much left to do under there.
john [boss281] was very unhappy with the results he got from the stage III compcams. i hope he gets that worked out cause he spent some serious coin on that whole ordeal. my VERY inexperienced opinion is, from reading the forums, that the superchargers is the most bang per horsepower for your buck. basically i will have done all i can do for the most part once i get my tune and then i'll have to decide if i want to stay n/a or go forced induction.